议论文素材：得与失(精选两篇)

导语：我认为，得与失是一种相辅相成的共存关系。有得必有失，无失则无得。许许多多的故事，使这个道理愈发明白。下面是yuwenmi小编为大家整理的写作素材，欢迎阅读与借鉴，谢谢!

Introduction: I think it is a complementary coexistence relationship with losses.If you have gain, you must lose, and you do n’t lose.Many stories have made this truth more invented.The following is the writing material compiled by the editor of Yuwenmi for everyone. Welcome to read and learn from it, thank you!

1：小议得与失

生活就是一门，平衡得与失的艺术。生活有得有失，本是自然。鱼与熊掌不可兼得。但失去，并非无所有，并非无所得。泰戈尔曾经说过，如果你因为失去太阳而哭泣，那么你也会错过群星。"不要因为失去而悲伤，而应看到所得到的。得与失让我想到太极，无极而太极。太极动而生阳，动极而静，静而生阴，静极复动。一动一静，互为其根。到现在我只是懂。却做不好平衡生活中的得与失。

Life is a door, balance and loss of art.Life is natural. It is natural.Fish and bear's paw cannot be both.But losing is not nothing, none of nothing.Tagore once said that if you cry because you lose the sun, then you will miss the stars."Don't be sad because of the loss, you should see what you get. You have to think of Tai Chi, Wuji and Tai Chi.Quiet, the root of each other. I just understand it until now. But I can't balance the gains and losses in my life.

在我很小的时候......我记得总是问父母要零用钱。当时母亲老是让我干些，我觉得枯燥无味的事情来换取。我不明白就问。你问什么要我做这些你直接给我就 行了啊。母亲却笑着说傻孩子想要得到，就会失去。先学会承担，你才会不失去，我不懂母亲说什么。直到后来那让我恨自己一辈子的事让我体会到得与失的一点点 含义。那时候我有一个很好关系的小伙伴。我们一起吃，一起上课，一起玩耍。我门经过一家果园看见一颗很大的桃树可是桃树上只有一个果子。我门都想要。那我 门就决定谁先趴上去摘到就是谁的。我门就开始像猴子一样在树上攀爬。他比我稍微爬的快一点。眼看他要摘到了，我也只是差那么一点。我急了一脚把他蹬下桃 树，结果他的脚骨折了。那时候我被父母关起来认真的思过。我才明白母亲说的，得到就会失去，我得到了桃子却失去了儿时最亲密的伙伴，在想如果我没有和他去 挣那颗桃子。也许现在我们，也不用像最熟悉的陌生人。

When I was very young ... I remember always asking my parents to use pocket money. At that time, my mother always let me do it, and I felt boring and tasteless. I asked if I didn't understand. What do you ask me to do these? The mother smiled and said that the silly child would lose. Learn to bear first, you will not lose, I don't understand what my mother says. Until the later thing that made me hate my life made me appreciate a little meaning of gaining and loss. At that time, I had a good relationship with a good relationship. Let's eat together, take class together, and play together. Our door saw a large peach tree through a orchard, but there was only one fruit on the peach tree. My door wants. Then my door decided who to lie down first. My door began to climb on the tree like a monkey. He climbed a little faster than me. Seeing that he was going to pick it, I was just a little worse. I was anxious to kick him down the peach tree, but his feet fractured. At that time, I was stained with my parents seriously. I only understood what my mother said that I would lose it. I got the peaches but lost the closest partner of my childhood. I thought that if I did not earn the peach with him. Maybe now we don't have to look like the most familiar strangers.

落花不是无情物，化作春泥更护花。虽然自然失去了红花，但它会得到一个正在孕育中的花蕾。我们赤裸裸的来，也会赤裸裸的去。人生在世，得失之间。我们又收获了什么呢?

Falling flowers are not ruthless, turning into spring mud to protect flowers.Although it naturally loses safflower, it will get a flower bud that is being bred.When we come naked, we will go naked.Life is alive, between gains and losses.What did we gain?

其实不管选择什么，你都会有所得有所失。因为得与失是并存的，只要你明白在这件事中你得到了什么，失去了什么就行了。而不是过分的纠结于自己得了多少，或者失去了多少，因为你失去的越多你得到的就会越多。

In fact, no matter what you choose, you will lose something.Because you have to coexist with losses, as long as you understand what you get in this incident and what you lose.Instead of being too entangled in how much you get, or how much you lose, the more you lose, the more you get.

2：小议得与失

得与失是平衡的，是互补的。

It is balanced and complementary.

在这个竞争激烈的社会，得，是人人皆想的。但往往伴随你收获的就是你的失去。

In this fiercely competitive society, everyone thinks.But often with you harvest is your loss.

我想起了那塞翁。虽说那一天他意外地失去了一匹马，但数天后他又见到了失去的马返回家中，且带来了另一匹马。他多得了一匹马，但戏剧性的是，他的儿子骑马时不慎断腿截肢。他又失去了儿子的健康。出人意料的是儿子因残疾未被征去当兵，他又幸运地得到了与儿子平安的生活，他老有所依。

I remembered Naison.Although he accidentally lost a horse that day, a few days later, he saw the lost horse returned home and brought another horse.He got a horse, but the dramatic thing was that his son accidentally broke his leg amputation while riding his horse.He lost his son's health again.Surprisingly, his son was not recruited as a soldier due to disability, and he was fortunate to get a safe life with his son.

你说这是得还是失?我说，塞翁不得也不失。因为得与失是互相弥补的，你失去了，总会再得到别的;你得到了，那也必会失去什么。没有人的一生一切顺 利，万事总能以盈收尾;也没有人一辈子一无所有，逢事就亏。人既生来就拥有平衡的一生，那么就不必太计较得失。面对得，切不可沾沾自喜，自以为是，沉迷于喜悦中而停止了拼搏努力的脚步;面对失，也不能心灰意冷，垂头丧气，陷入悲痛中而不能自拔。你要懂得，有得就有失，得与失是平衡的，是互补的。只要把握好心态，积极进取，积累得的经验，吸取失的教训，那你的人生一定会灿烂无比，精彩无限。

Do you say it was or lost? I said, Saon had to lose it.Because you have to make up for each other, if you lose it, you will always get something else; you get it, and then you will lose anything.No one's life is smooth, and everything can always be closed with a profit; and no one will have nothing in a lifetime, and you will lose everything.People have a balanced life when they are born, so there is no need to gain too much gain.In the face of it, you should not be complacent, self -righteous, indulge in joy and stop hard work; face the loss, you can't be discouraged, drooping, caught in grief and unable to extricate yourself.You have to understand that if you have something, you will lose, and you will be balanced and complementary.As long as you grasp your mentality, be positive, accumulate experience , and learn from the lessons, then your life will definitely be extremely brilliant and wonderful.